Don't Let The Man Break You Down

I'm doing two posts today because tomorrow I'm going to be busy all day and wont have time to do it.

o·pin·ion-1. A view or judgment formed about something, not necessarily based on fact or knowledge

  So the other day something got brought to my attention about how some people think in the human race. I know that their are many ways for billions of people to think but today I'm just going to talk about one. Which is if someone has an opinion about something ,it can be anything really, that you need to have facts to back it up. Well that is a load of bull,to have an opinion you do not need facts to back it up,because its a stinking opinion as a citizen of the USA you have the right to an opinion. 2nd just look at the definition of opinion it states right there that you don't necessarily have to have an opinion based on facts or knowledge.Yet there are some people out there that fail to remember that and feel like you can have an opinion about something unless you have fact or knowledge about what ever you are talking about.

  Something people that if you don't have facts to back up you opinion feel like they have to do, is brake down you opinion, because they feel like its not good enough to be an opinion just based on the fact that it has no facts. Again I say that is bull, and its also a dominating way of thinking. If you look at the person that has that way of thinking, or you know that person very well, think for a to yourself for a sec : is this person breaking down my opinion because i have no facts to back it up or is this person breaking it down because that's all they know how to do.


When I do stop and think those things it makes me feel sorry for that person and I begin to see that there a very unhappy person deep down inside. Also that all they need is a hug /o\  just for the simple fact that well it sucks to be unhappy all the time but think that you have to keep up a tough mentality  and not show that your unhappy with your life.

 As a last thought before lesson of the day, if human as a whole wants to grow in other ways then just the way we have been for decades we need to open are eyes to the fact that there are billions of people and that they all have an opinion of some kind, and your not going to like them all.


 So on that note the lesson of the day is 1) stand strong in your opinion no matter what anyone may say  2) just because someone has an opinion doesn't mean that you have to like it just understand that its just one persons way of thinking and that there are billions of people on the planet one is bound to think like you do. 

Life in Seattle and The Power Women Have Over It

 
     I  moved to Seattle,WA a year ago and found out that life up here in the northwest is a little different then from a lot of the US. First off the people up here are a lot more worried about are planet then that of people in other states and countries. Now the government wants people to think that global warming is not real its just something that the people with tinfoil hats on there heads want you think. It is very much real how else would you explain the jacked up weather. Like the stupidly long winters and the unbearably hot summers where you feel like your going sweat every oz of liquid you have in your body out. Also how else would you explain the polar ice caps melting making the sea level higher bringing the ocean closer and closer to major cities. Now there are some states that are taking the steppes to try and reverse the damage that has been caused by people. Like California having the wind turbines, and trying to promote recycling. But in all honesty two states are not going to make that big of a difference in making the human carbon foot print smaller. More states need to take steps in using alternative methods for car fuel and wast disposal.

  Something else that sets Seattle apart from the rest of the states is the law system. Now what I mean by the law system is when a man and a women get a divorce in the state of Washington the man gets royally screwed in the whole ordeal. Even if the man is a upstanding person and the best husband that a women could ever ask for as well, as the best father, and the only  reason why they got a divorce in the first place was cause the husband just didn't see eye to eye on anything with his wife. The reason for the men getting screwed is that for some reason women have more pull up here then anywhere else that I know of when it comes to the law system. Now I'm not compiling about women have a lot of pull in somethings, but in some cases the mother is not the best option for the child.  But yet the law system fails to see when the mother is the bad parent and not the father. This again goes back to my comment that I made in yesterdays blog about women not being truthful. The women in this cases lie their way into getting there kids by making the father look like an jerk. And the fun doesn't stop their the men also has all the money they make as well as the house they shared taken and given to the wife even if there is no kids involved.

 Now I don't want it to sound like I don't think that all the women that have gotten those things don't deserve it. I'm sure their are some women out there that did and do but the ones that basically move  the justice system around like puns to get there way, have given us honest women a bad name. And make it where no men can trust women.

Now I have found that the subject of women getting the upper hand in a divorce is talked about here in Washington a lot, to be honest almost daily on the radio, and the sad thing is that its not just the men talking about, its the women too.  But this is something that most states don't really make it a high point of conversation on the radio, unless there is a man that makes it a point to talk about it, because he is going through it, or has gone through it himself.
 
    If I am wrong about any of what I have said in the last two paragraphs then please tell me, because I am only seeing one side of the story. But if you merely think that I am the one that is making the female gender look bad I'm not trying to at all, what I am trying to do is bring to light things that women do not want to look at about themselves. And making them look at something that if not fixed or merely take notice of there actions, and try to not use there power over men as harshly as same women do, it will cause bigger problems in the future.

 So what is today's lesson in all this, well I will let you the reader decide for yourself. But the lesson I get from this is that women need to not abuse the power that we have over men. We need to use it wisely and only when it benefits both parties in the matter not just the women in certain cases.
  

    

Something To Keep In Mind

   Okay so even tho I only have 2 follower as of right now and both of them are married to wonderful men but for those future readers of my blog that have a husband or a boyfriend or are even looking for mister right like I am. Here is some advice about guys for all ages married, dating,and single that I learned on my own and from my mom and even my mom have problems remembering this sometimes.

  First off all men no matter how old or young they are, they were all dropped on there head at some point in there life. The parents my not of done it, maybe not even the doctors but someone, somehow they were dropped on there head. That brings me to point number 2 they will always be 9 year old boy, they will have there moments were they act their age but for the most part they will never get older then 9. And 9 year old boys are very sensitive, so there feelings are easily hurt but they also want to make there women happy in every way possible. They even wont the women in there life to be proud of them when they do something that they are proud of.

  Something else that I have found out on my own from first hand experience is not all the little games that women play with guys, is well first off in my opinion stupid. The reason why I say that is that women always want guys to be straight forward with them but yet women wont be straight with men. So how the heck do you expect a guy to be up front with you if all you do is play little mind games with them.Its not fair for them in a relationship to be the only one that is straight. My thing is if you cant be straight with the man you are with and you feel like you have to hide who you really are from him then he is not the man you are meant to be with, move on and find someone else that you can be yourself with and that wants you to be yourself with him.

   So today's lesson is well a few things one when ever you start to get mad at you guy just keep in mind that he doesn't mean to do it that hes just a 9 year old boy trying his hardest to do good in your eyes. Two women and girls stop playing mind games with guys they hate it and its not fair to ask something of them that you are not willing to do yourself. Third do not stay in a relationship or even for that matter don't get in a relationship that you can not be yourself with and that wants you to be something you are not.